Hey Carlisle,
As a parent who drops their toddler off at daycare every day, I know exactly what you mean. The most frightening thing to me right now is to wonder what kinds of impressions could be forming on her that are outside of what we define as acceptable at home. I am hoping that exposure to diversity at a young age (AND growing up in a household that does not tolerate racism or other forms of hate and violence) will help guide her as she grows into her own person. But you’re right, what do we do when they leave the nest? A lot of it comes down to having faith that you did your job as a parent, but what about the crap they might be picking up from influences we can’t/don’t know as parents? I agree that one way we can help create a better society is to raise our children well and to expose them to as many cultures and experiences as possible while we have the time with them.
And Anna–the struggle is real. If my daughter didn’t go to her daycare where the environment was so racially and culturally diverse, that part of her education would more or less be up to me, her dad, and whatever multi-cultural Netflix documentaries I could expose her to. (At this point in time… or at least until I’m Dr. Harrell and we are on our merry way…) Southwest VA is definitely a bubble, especially for graduate student parents of small children.
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