Thanks for posting, Mary. I popped over to the Mom Stories blog to read about the kindergarten report card. “… the main requirements are a) show up b) eat snack and c) take a rest — you’ve earned it with all that showing up and eating snack, let’s just say she nailed it.”
I was going to stop reading, but then it got better. “And so, given the stellar nature of this particular report card, we offered to let Kate pick out a small item at the American Girl store as a reward. She was, like totally ecstatic…” http://gph.is/1E2ssrH
The above will make for some interesting dinner conversation tonight :)
My mom always said that if my brothers and I grew up to be self-sufficient adults she would consider herself a success. No education tied to it, she hoped we would all grow up and move somewhere cool so that she could come and visit (older brother lives in England so he’s winning, for now). Of course, my mom and dad wanted us to get good grades, I don’t recall ever being punished for not getting good grades, but I was never rewarded for getting good grades.